Relationships
Some Tips Guys Wished Girls Knew.
Some Tips Guys Wished Girls Knew.
. *Men Will Talk About Feelings
Was your guy raised as a traditional stoic, man's man? Ask What they'd do during a romantic weekend. Or what they thought the first time they met you. Their response will reveal how they feel and bring you closer.
*Men say, " I Love You" With Actions
Some men prefer to show their feelings through actions rather than words. Your guy may say "I love you" by fixing things around the house, tidying the yard, or even taking out the trash - anything that make the world a better place.
*Men Take Commitment Seriously
Men have a reputation for being afraid to commit. But the evidence suggests men take marriage seriously. They may take longer to commit because they want to make sure they are onboard for good. In a survey of current married men, 90% day they would marry the same woman again.
*They Really are Listening
When you are listening to someone talk, you probably chime in with a "yes" or "I see" every now and then. It's your way of saying, " I'm listening." But some guys don't do this. Just because a man isn't saying doesn't mean they are not listening. They may prefer to listen quietly and think about what you're saying.
*Shared Activities Form Bonds
Men strengthen their relationships with their partners through doing things together, more than sharing thoughts and feelings. For many men, activities loke sports and sex make them feel closer to their partner.
*Men Need Time for Themselves
While shared activities are important, men also need time for themselves.
Whether your guy enjoys golf, gardening, or working out at the gym, encourage them to pursue their hobbies, while you make time for your own. When both have space to nurture their individuality, they have more to give each other.
*Men Learn From Their Fathers
If you want to know how a man will act in a relationship, get to know their dad. How they are with each other and how the father relates to their own partner can predict
how a man will relate to his wife.
*Men Let Go Faster Than Woman
Women tend to remember negative experiences longer and may have lingering feelings of stress, anxiety or sadness. In contrast men are less likely to dwell on unpleasant events and tend to move on quickly. So, while you may still want to talk about last night's argument, your guy may have already forgotten about it.
*Men Don't Pick Up Subtle Clues
Men are more likely to miss subtle signals like tone of voice and facial expressions. And they are especially likely to miss sadness on a woman's face. If you want to make sure your guy gets the message, be direct.
*Men Respond to Appreciation
Showing appreciation for your guy can be a great difference in the way they act. Take parenting: Studies show that fathers are more involved in caregiving when their wives value their involvement and see them as competent.
*Men Think About Sex...A Lot
Men fantasize about sex nearly twice as often as women do, and their fantasies are much more varied. They also think more about casual sex than women do. But thinking is not the same as doing.
*Men Find Sex Significant
It's a myth that most men think sex is just sex. For many, sex is a very important act between two committed people. And just like most women, men find sexual intimacy to be the most satisfying within a committed relationship. One reason is long term partners know how to please one another better than strangers do.
*They Like It When You Initiate Sex
Most guys feel as though they're the ones who always initiate sex. Buit they also like to be pursued and wish their partner would take the lead more often. Don't be shy about letting your guy know you're in the mood. This can lead to higher satisfaction for both of you.
Credit: WebMD
Was your guy raised as a traditional stoic, man's man? Ask What they'd do during a romantic weekend. Or what they thought the first time they met you. Their response will reveal how they feel and bring you closer.
*Men say, " I Love You" With Actions
Some men prefer to show their feelings through actions rather than words. Your guy may say "I love you" by fixing things around the house, tidying the yard, or even taking out the trash - anything that make the world a better place.
*Men Take Commitment Seriously
Men have a reputation for being afraid to commit. But the evidence suggests men take marriage seriously. They may take longer to commit because they want to make sure they are onboard for good. In a survey of current married men, 90% day they would marry the same woman again.
*They Really are Listening
When you are listening to someone talk, you probably chime in with a "yes" or "I see" every now and then. It's your way of saying, " I'm listening." But some guys don't do this. Just because a man isn't saying doesn't mean they are not listening. They may prefer to listen quietly and think about what you're saying.
*Shared Activities Form Bonds
Men strengthen their relationships with their partners through doing things together, more than sharing thoughts and feelings. For many men, activities loke sports and sex make them feel closer to their partner.
*Men Need Time for Themselves
While shared activities are important, men also need time for themselves.
Whether your guy enjoys golf, gardening, or working out at the gym, encourage them to pursue their hobbies, while you make time for your own. When both have space to nurture their individuality, they have more to give each other.
*Men Learn From Their Fathers
If you want to know how a man will act in a relationship, get to know their dad. How they are with each other and how the father relates to their own partner can predict
how a man will relate to his wife.
*Men Let Go Faster Than Woman
Women tend to remember negative experiences longer and may have lingering feelings of stress, anxiety or sadness. In contrast men are less likely to dwell on unpleasant events and tend to move on quickly. So, while you may still want to talk about last night's argument, your guy may have already forgotten about it.
*Men Don't Pick Up Subtle Clues
Men are more likely to miss subtle signals like tone of voice and facial expressions. And they are especially likely to miss sadness on a woman's face. If you want to make sure your guy gets the message, be direct.
*Men Respond to Appreciation
Showing appreciation for your guy can be a great difference in the way they act. Take parenting: Studies show that fathers are more involved in caregiving when their wives value their involvement and see them as competent.
*Men Think About Sex...A Lot
Men fantasize about sex nearly twice as often as women do, and their fantasies are much more varied. They also think more about casual sex than women do. But thinking is not the same as doing.
*Men Find Sex Significant
It's a myth that most men think sex is just sex. For many, sex is a very important act between two committed people. And just like most women, men find sexual intimacy to be the most satisfying within a committed relationship. One reason is long term partners know how to please one another better than strangers do.
*They Like It When You Initiate Sex
Most guys feel as though they're the ones who always initiate sex. Buit they also like to be pursued and wish their partner would take the lead more often. Don't be shy about letting your guy know you're in the mood. This can lead to higher satisfaction for both of you.
Credit: WebMD
